At another time He said, “Love and forget. This is the only thing that matters and it pays…. Learn to janey doe [let go] — to give up wanting the last word. Why do you care to be understood when you know you are right? Give up all wants and be happy. But you must try consciously.”
Then Baba, with His ready sense of humor, tenderness and love, knowing we were all trying, although failing so repeatedly, would add the sweet to the bitter and continue: “Now be happy. I forgive you all, but go on trying. How about going away for the summer?”
-Kitty Davy
-Love Alone Prevails, Kitty Davy, p 243,